Fire company volunteer leads Wednesday group
A woman is walking to her car in a dimly lit parking lot when she’s approached by someone who tries to stop her. What does she do?
Marie Neville teaches a self-defense class on Wednesday nights at Munger Cottage in Cornwall.
She’s well-known in Cornwall, having served more than 50 years as a member of the Storm King Engine Company Auxiliary. She’s helped the women win several marching trophies, which is what you’d expect from a former Marine.
After leaving the service Mrs. Neville earned her black belt, which qualifies her to lead the course. Her granddaughter and some of her 12th-grade classmates are among the students.
A part of self-defense is being alert and knowing what you have available. On April 6, the class members practiced a response to the parking lot scenario. They shouted “no” and kept walking as a make-believe stranger tried to stop them.
Each “no” was loud and the shouter sounded angry.
“Don’t be afraid to scream,” the teacher told them.
She suggested having their key ready to open their car door. And if the stranger follows and tries to grab them, the key can be used as a weapon. If necessary, it could be jabbed in his eye. It’s part of knowing what you have available.
The subject matter is serious. But the atmosphere is light. There are several smiles and occasional laughter as the students follow the instructions. They learn to deflect blows and escape an attacker’s grip.
If someone grabs your wrist, the way to get free is to yank your arm through the spot where your assailant’s thumb and forefinger come together. It’s the least secure area of the grip.
As one of the Wednesday night routines, the women stepped forward and punched the air. “I don’t want powder puff blows,” Mrs. Neville confided later. She wants her students to punch like they mean it.
While it’s hoped that these lessons will never be necessary, the classes provide an evening of exercise and camaraderie. To learn more, please call the Town Recreation Department at 845-534-2070.
