Obituaries – May 16, 2014

Margery A. Dudman

January 5, 1932-May 11, 2014

Margery A. Dudman of Cornwall-on-Hudson entered into eternal rest on May 11. She was 82 years old.

The daughter of Robert and Eunice Higgs, Margery was born on January 5, 1932 in Auburn, N.Y.

She earned her Nursing Degree from Lenox Hill Hospital. She was a nurse at West Point Hospital and a school nurse at Cornwall-on-Hudson and St. Thomas schools.

Margery was a loving, kind and generous wife and mother.  She played cards with her husband daily, and on paper owed him more than the national debt.  She would never fail to lift the spirits of those around her with a joke, or with her tongue sticking out.  As a follower of high fashion she was frequently seen wearing sweat shirts with Disney characters. She could often be found blowing raspberries on the feet of infant relatives.  She will be missed greatly.

She is survived by her husband of 52 years, William Dudman, her four children, Bill, Mark, Thomas and Susan as well as four grandchildren.

Visitation was due to be held from 5 to 8 p.m. on Thursday May 15 at Quigley Bros. Funeral Home, 337 Hudson Street, Cornwall–on-Hudson.  A Mass will be held at 10 a.m. on Friday May 16 at St. Thomas of Canterbury Church at 340 Hudson Street.

In lieu of flowers contributions can be made to Hudson Valley Food Bank, 195 Hudson Street, Cornwall-On-Hudson NY 12520

Abby S. Mayer

July 6, 1928-May 9, 2014

Abby S. Mayer, of Cornwall entered into eternal rest on May 9 at St. Luke’s Cornwall Hospital  He was 85.

The son of  Morris Mayer and Lee Solomon Mayer, Abby was born on July 6, 1928 in Brooklyn.

He earned his master’s degree  from New England Conservatory of Music in Boston  and his master’s professional degree from Columbia University. Abby was retired  after serving as a musician  with the USMA Band at West Point. He honorably and proudly served his country as a member of the U.S Army from 1953-1976.

“Abby Mayer had a passion for music,” his family said, “centered on the French Horn and teaching.  Enduring love for Marianne his wife for 59 years. His family extended beyond all boundaries where friends were as close as ordinary kin. His spirit transcended to all with no constraints or prejudices.  He was truly a Renaissance man, who was a shining example worth emulating. No words can express his love for others and ours for him.  He will be greatly missed with his legacy living on through all who knew him.”

Abby S. Mayer is survived by his wife Marianne Soller Mayer at home; sons Abby Sigfried Mayer and his wife Linda of Mendham N.J. and Lyle Mayer and his wife Ria of New York City; an Aunt Mayer, cousins Peter Drew and Raleigh Mayer; a  second cousin Jessica McGorman; and  his grandchildren Emily and Dan Mayer. He was predeceased by his brother Lloyd Mayer

The family received visitors on May 13 at Quigley Bros. Funeral Home in Cornwall-on-Hudson. A funeral service was held at the funeral home when visiting hours were over. He was buried with  military honors  on May 14 at  the USMA Cemetery at West Point.

Terri Staab

April 14, 2014

Terri Staab, long-time resident of Cornwall-On-Hudson from 1972-2005, was joyfully received into the loving arms of her Heavenly Father on April 14. The hearts of our family have been sorely wounded, but we are also profoundly comforted knowing she is now whole, in perfect peace, experiencing indescribable joy, and that one day we will be reunited with her.

Terri was active in the community as a Brownie and Girl Scout leader, Cornwall-On-Hudson; a devout fan at every sporting event of her children, a Sunday School teacher at Union Presbyterian Church, Balmville; a teacher at Leptondale Christian Academy, Newburgh; An Explorer Girl leader at Leptondale Bible Church, Newburgh; a substitute teacher in the Cornwall and Newburgh School Districts, a provider of pre-school day care at our home on Payson Road, and a teacher aide at Butterhill Day School, Cornwall.

Terri is the dear wife of Rich Staab; the beloved mother of Sherri (Staab) Fordenbacher of  New Windsor,  Tom Staab of Surprise, Ariz. and Lilli (Staab) Caiazzo of West Virginia. Terri adored her nine grandchildren: Hannah and Leah Fordenbacher of New Windsor; TJ, Luke, and Lilli Staab of Surprise, Ariz.; and Ana, Keilah, Simeon, and Malachi Caiazzo of West Virginia. She also leaves behind her Mom, Miriam Fredricksen; and sister, Liz Ronda, both of Katonah, N.Y.

A Memorial Service will be held at Leptondale Bible Church, 1771 Route 300 in Newburgh  on Saturday, July 5 at 2 p.m.